We have had Zero misogyny grievances in our community 👌
because we remove gender references from all statements
The System doesn’t see gender.
It works for the majority.
It is not structured to support and protect women.
When a grievance is submitted, it calls the petitioner the complainant. (Complaining: (Merriam-Webster synonym whining.)
The accused is the respondent. They are simply responding. Not making trouble. Not whining.
The complainant does not read the respondent’s response to the complaint if he does not want her to. He gets to decide.
She makes assumptions, based on the questions The System asks her.
And especially on the questions not asked.
For the questions not asked, is it because he is summarily believed? Or her grievances are just not important?
The System assumes a level playing field for everyone.
From the view at the top of the food chain, it can look like the field is level. But those of us actually playing know better.
And if those at the top would start to make the effort, they would start to see. If they would just look.
Look to see.
Because The System is not gravity, it is not a natural law. It is a man-made one.
And we get to re-make it.
We get to make a healthier community.